Okay so I'm a Xhosa dude.. Which means I try but I try not to waste my time as well. So I went on a date in March yabo with another cute honey and things were going great ne and we got hungry so we went to a place, great vanue, her choice, and as soon as we sat down, she boxed up and started with one word answers and it was like being in court yabo with...yes and no... so I got bored and started thinking about things I would be doing if I was home and then another thought crossed my mind.... "....kanene who the fuck is paying for this?....I can bore myself to death and not have to pay a cent, WTF...am I doing here?" We already made our order and it was on the table ne and I had stopped trying to make any conversation with lomntana, I just asked if she needed salt qha... and then I had a funny moment and a silent smile went over my face :) I never order chicken on the first date okay...(my rule) but I could see this date wasn't gonna go well from the moment we sat